Breakthrough Coaching

Ever had something absolutely awful happen to you? Probably. Could you turn it into an opportunity? Most likely. We constantly add meaning to everything that happens in our life, and whether this is fantastically empowering or painfully disempowering, it’s not real. Nothing is inherently bad or good, so the way that we choose to think about and frame an event completely dictates your experience in the world. Breakthrough coaching will put you back in the drivers seat.

“My redundancy means I’m unappreciated”
> My redundancy gives me the chance to spend time on the projects I’m passionate about and move towards my dream career.

“The abuse I endured has left me broken”
> I am strong enough to take the learnings from this experience and my strength makes me unstoppable.

“My breakup means I’m unlovable”
> My breakup means that they weren’t the right person for me and I still have the joy of meeting my ideal partner yet to come.

“Their anger is because they hate me”
> Their anger is because they feel insecure and threatened.

It’s a simple truth that sometimes we need to let shit go in order to move forward. Deep rooted beliefs that sealed themselves into our subconscious a long time ago (that often we can’t even consciously remember happening) hold us back in life. As this cycle repeats, it’s like a hammer smashing the belief further and further into your person.

Whether that belief is coming to a head as self-sabotage, indecision, chronic anxiety, unwarranted amounts of emotion, or stopping you from even trying – let’s let that shit gooo. The unconscious mind holds the root cause, and using NLP we can weed it out for good.

Belief – “People are going to leave me”
> Self-sabotaging pattern at a systematic and unconscious level > causing self-fulfilling prophecy – people actually leave.

Belief – “People don’t listen to me”
> Lack of or excess communication, mismatching energy levels and lack of rapport > causing self-fulfilling prophecy – people don’t listen.

Belief – “There’s no point trying because I know I’ll fail” (fear of failure)
> Tries and fails because they believe at their core that they’ll fail > causing self-fulfilling prophecy. Or doesn’t even try because the belief is so debilitating and therefore never achieves.

Breakthrough coaching (via NLP) provides a fast-track way to get your brain on board. How convenient! We insert your outcome (what it is that you absolutely most want) into your subconscious as a “future memory”, so that the unconscious mind latches on to this as an inevitable future and acts accordingly.

Part of the function of the unconscious mind is to prove whatever it believes to be true. This means that at an unconscious level, your brain is going to be seeking out opportunities, resources and attitudes that support your outcome because it’s already locked in as a part of your personal future. Yes, this is brain magic.

Future memories are incredibly sensory, specific and personal to the manifester – there is no right or wrong.
It tends to be that “oh shit moment” when you realise that you’ve achieved what you set out to.

Outcome – “I will be the author of a bestselling book”
example moments > feeling the book in your hands, getting the book deal call, raising a glass of champagne at your launch party.

Outcome – “I will attract a partner, and enjoy a loving and whole relationship”
example moments > the first moment you first feel that pang of love, embracing each other, talking and expressing love.

An integral part of breakthrough coaching is adopting the beliefs and patterns that will get you wherever it is you want to go. It’s one of the most simple and effective ways to find success. We have NLP techniques to cover just about everything, so what needs to change for you to attract your outcome?

Do you need to imbed a new habit into your daily routine? Do you need to go forward with a fresh attitude? Do you need to eliminate a phobia that’s standing in your way? Do you need to understand a challenging character in your life in order to progress?

“In order to run a successful business I should to be consistent in my communication with people but I procrastinate a lot”
> Install a habit of replying as soon as you read an email.

“In order to get the promotion I want I need to deliver a presentation at work but can’t speak in front of a group of people”
> Remove phobia of public speaking.

“To be my best self I need to prioritise self-care but I struggle to find the time”
> Develop a new strategy for self care and install into routine as a unconscious habit.